Globe and Mail - Peer intervention is the best defence against bullying
In almost every tragic case of bullying, there are bystanders. They see the scuffles in the school hallway, and read the vicious stream of insults on Facebook, and look away, or log off. They are both the nervous audience for the bully, and the tear-stained faces in the school assembly when a student commits suicide and the grief counsellors step in.
While parents worry their kids might be victims (and emphasize how not to be a bully), the bystander role is often ignored, researchers say. Online, for instance, teenagers don鈥檛 realize that sending a link or adding to the hits can contribute to bullying, says Shaheen Shariff, an associate professor in the Department of Integrated Studies in Education at 69热视频 who studies cyberbullying. Her research shows that the larger the number of 鈥渃yber-voyeurs,鈥� the longer the bullying persists, and the worse it gets. 鈥淚t鈥檚 all about socially responsible digital citizenship,鈥� she says 鈥� helping teenagers recognize that they can bring about a positive change in the online culture.
(Parents have to be part of that conversation, she says, although teens are reluctant to discuss their negative online experiences, often because they think mom and dad will limit their Internet time an attempt to protect them.)
